Bob's Journal said in response to "Lewis Carrol" - "But the truth is there. The age gap remains. We used to be that way, at least I know I was, and now I see it in younger souls, and you can't give them all the answers, but maybe give the young the right questions that they can figure them out, so they too can become fat, old and flabby jawed."Well, it was one of the younger generation who said I want a relationship they don't want (one of my family). I guess I succeeded in raising independent, intelligent children who give back to society. I've said that before but must say it until I believe it. I may be fat, old and flabby jawed in their eyes, but perhaps not, Bob. I wasn't friends with my parents. They were my parents. Now the trend seems to be pals with your kids. Is that healthy? I don't know but I'm not pals with my kids. I'm their mom.
However, the lesson remains. The age gap is there, as you said.
"Be off or I'll kick you downstairs..." Very well said, Father William.
You know, this poem was written in response to Robert Southey's pontifications, to deflate his pomposity. I sometimes do the same but people don't like it, do they?
I'm wondering if I should care. Or if I should simply balance an eel on the end of my nose and kick the naysayers in their rump.
It's true, I feel more at ease with people of my own generation.
Come to think of it, my mother and I were very good friends -- after I was about 45-50 years old. Guess I had to be HER age to understand and accept her. She ALWAYS understood and accepted me. Cuz she was my MOM, ya know?
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